girls with good taste

I had a feeling this would happen

2012-03-09T07:00:00.002-08:00

This Friday officially kicks off spring break and that means it's time for shorts, flip flops, and spring cleaning! There is enough to do around this house to last the entire two weeks, but first things first.

I got a head start when I decided to CL the family room rug. We've had it for 5 years and although it's comfortably hosted many a cousin sleep over, it was getting tired. I loved it in the winter, but it always felt a little hot here in the AZ sun. Since we're getting prepared for fierce temperatures, it was a good time to see it go.

You know when you change one thing in your home and it's like pushing over the first domino....I had a feeling this would happen. All of a sudden I've got a stack of artwork, mirrors, and other accessories waiting to see their way out the door.

But who knew that replacing a family room rug could be such a BIG deal?

I know I need at least a 9 x 12, it's got to be comfortable, affordable, and something that will stand the test of time. With the three ring circus that goes on daily, high maintenance won't work. I've decided I want a natural fiber (ie jute, seagrass, etc) rug, and I found a beautiful cow hide to layer on top.

Let's just say that 20 hours on the computer later, I'm still at square 1.

I've researched every natural fiber including it's origin, the way it wears, cost, and comfort. I found some helpful tips from Lauren Liess {here}. I also found a great source for natural fiber rugs if you're looking for an 8 x 10 or smaller {here}.

I've checked out every retail store from Urban Outfitters to Restoration Hardware, but you know I'm not a retail girl. I've worked in the design industry long enough to know all about the mark up system, and I just don't think it's in me!

I've shopped carpet stores for remnants and thought about how I could piece two rugs together. I've called every Pottery Barn outlet store from here to NY, hoping they'd have what I was looking for at a fraction of the price, and ship it right to my door. Nope. Trust me, I've even thought about getting a part time job for the employee discount. After all, Jilly and I first laid eyes on each other while folding the denim wall at the Gap!

After loosing sleep and neglecting the children, here are the top 3 picks so far. Each come in a 9 x 12, are comfortable, and could potentially be affordable if I sold my first born.

Chunky Wool and Natural Jute rug from Pottery Barn {here} $649.00

Ribbed Natural Wool and Jute rug from EZ Buy Furniture {here} $530.00

Mini Pebble Jute and Wool rug from West Elm {here} $699.00

I'f you've scored any good deals on a 9 x 12, comfortable, jute, rug and you care about me at all, you'll tell me about it NOW so I can go back to being a good mother.

Until then, we're teaching the Nino how to use his inside voice so the neighbors don't hear all our family secrets echoing off of the cold, hard, tile.

a few good things

2012-03-06T05:47:00.000-08:00

Since we are headed right out of soup weather here in Gilbert, I MUST share this recipe with all of you before we hit 90 degrees. That's right, it is almost officially summer here, and I couldn't be more displeased. My in-laws are coming from Canada early next week, and I'm sure they are willing the warm weather upon us. They probably deserve some sunshine, so I'm trying not to complain.

Mia hosted a sweet little dinner party a couple weeks ago for a few couples. She decided on a simple menu of soup, salads, and bread because we were going all out for dessert. {The maple, bacon donuts}. OH WOW. You really must try this recipe before it's too hot to fire the fry daddy up. Mia has started a "donut of the month club" to try all the fabulous creations in her new book. She makes the donuts, and I show up. It's genius! I can't wait to see which one she picks to make in March.

I made the soup for the gathering last month. Tomato Bisque, per Mia's request. It is a winning recipe if I do say so myself. And really, it's so easy. Even if you are a beginner, this soup will make you look like you know what you're doing.

Tomato Bisque

5 slices of bacon

1 cup chopped celery

1 cup diced onion

4 cloves garlic, minced

1 bay leaf

1 tsp. dried, crushed thyme
1 tsp. crushed red pepper flakes (or less)

1 (28 oz) can diced tomatoes

1 (6 oz) can tomato paste

2 cups whipping cream

2 cups milk

Cook bacon in skillet, remove bacon. (you aren't going to use the bacon in the soup, you just need the drippings, but I'm sure you will find a good use for those 5 slices!) Cook garlic in the bacon drippings for 30 seconds. Add celery, onion, thyme, crushed red pepper flakes, and bay leaf. Cook and stir over medium heat for 5 minutes or until onion is tender. Stir in the whole can of tomatoes (with the juice) and tomato paste. Bring to a boil, then reduce the heat to low. Cover and simmer for 30 minutes, stirring occasionally. Stir in milk and cream. Cook and stir over medium heat for 5 minutes. Remove from heat, discard bay leaf. Cool soup slightly. Process until smooth. Season with kosher salt and pepper. Serve with fresh snipped basil and a dollop of sour cream. (completely optional)

Another good thing I wanted to share are the drawer liners I did on Jaci's little {coral nightstand}.

I went the extra mile and painted the insides of the drawers. I knew I wanted to add a patterned liner, and I found some cute wrapping paper at Hobby Lobby. G was over one morning and offered to help me put it in. We decided to use thumbtacks to hold it down on the corners, and since the drawers are pretty wide, we added another one in the middle on the top and bottom, for a total of 6 tacks per drawer. It worked perfectly, and it's such a nice surprise when you open a drawer now. Love is in the details, right?

The third (and best) good thing I am sharing today is last weekend's high school dance called Morp. This is Prom spelled backwards, and it's girls ask guys. Jaci (my girl) decided to ask Brody (Mia's boy) to the dance. These kids have known each other for over 10 years now, and practically have a brother/sister type relationship. They were devastated when at age 14, we had to break the news that sleepovers probably weren't appropriate anymore. It was a sad day for everyone.

Jaci's adorable cousin Shelly moved to town a few months ago and started right up at her high school. They are both juniors, and are pretty much living the best dream ever. I love that they get to see each other everyday, and they were even lucky enough to get one class together in a school with over 5,000 students. They are the best of friends, and Shelly is one of the happiest girls in the world. She is brimming with positivity and delight. We all love when she spends time in our home.

The two girls came up with the brilliant plan of asking Brody and his cousin Colten to the dance, so it would be cousins taking cousins. Cute. By some freaky act of nature, both Brody and Colten broke their collarbones within 2 weeks of each other in snowboarding accidents, and so they were both in slings for their big night out. Not the best timing, but it made for some funny pictures, lots of laughs, and good memories. Ahhh, high school. What a fun time for these kids.

Mia and I made them a nice little lunch and they ate outside on a really beautiful afternoon. They even snuck in some time with one of the pet chickens, and that is just the start of the crazy things they encountered during their day together. The stories Jaci came home with were quite entertaining, and just clean, innocent fun. I'm so thankful that she has good friends. Knowing that makes it a little bit easier for me to watch her walk out the door each day.

This week your assignments are: make some bisque, line some drawers, and catch up with a friend! You will love that you took the time to do each thing. I sure did.

march giveaway

2012-03-02T06:43:00.004-08:00

Please enjoy a conversation Jilly's 17 year old daughter, Jaci, had with her friend one weekend when my boys were out of town....

Jaci- Hey Chelsea, whacha doin this weekend?

Chelsea- Um, I dunno. Thinkin about a movie or some shopping. What are you doin?

Jaci- Well, my mom's best friend is spending the night. Want to come over?

Chelsea- "Your mom's best friend is spending the night?" (said in a very confused voice)

Jaci- Ya, why?

Chelsea- Um, my mom and her friends don't do that. (pause) Where does your dad sleep?

Jaci- Downstairs on the couch.

Do you think that's weird, because I don't. Who made up the rule that just because you're out of high school, you can't spend the night with your best friend? And how chivalrous of Jilly's husband to give up his spot in the bed so I could be comfy. I think there should be more bestie sleep overs, and I think I'm naming March official "Best Friend Month."

In honor of Best Friend month, Jilly and I are hosting a super fun giveaway. We want to take YOU and your BFF out on the town for a fantastic day of thrifting. And we've teamed up with Lindsey from {Better After} whose coming too!

Lindsey is one of our favorite cyber friends and we love to see all the amazing and creative transformations on her blog. Honestly, if she ever gets tired of blogging, she should really consider stand up comedy. We can't wait to meet this hilariously adorable mother of three.

Imagine it, hooking up all day for some serious junkin, laughing, and picking up so many deals our wallets will be smokin'. Oh, and who could forget about one of the most important things. Lunch. We'll take you to one of our favorite spots, and it's on US!

So....do you want to come??? If you live outside of the Phoenix area and you can get yourself here, we're more than happy to put you up for the night. Now that could be fun.

We'll get in touch with the winner and come up with a plan that works best for everyone. We can't wait!

Here's all you have to do:

Subscribe to our blog- 1 entry
Become a follower of our blog- 1 entry
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Please make a separate comment for each entry to increase you chances of winning. A winner will be chosen via random.org on March 13th.

Here's to my best friend and biggest cheer leader. In 10 years, we have never run out of things to talk about, never been sick of each other, and have never had dinner without dessert. We've made over everything from our living rooms to our husbands, thrown every kind of party imaginable, and have treasure hunted all over the country. We've laughed A LOT together, and we've done our share of crying. We've finished a hundred projects and have a hundred more. We both get ridiculously excited about food, good deals, and Oprah. We always tell each other the truth, and we still find any excuse to be together.

I love you Jilly.

ignorance was bliss

2012-02-28T06:07:00.002-08:00

Have you ever found out about something fabulous that was practically right in your own backyard your whole life? And after you find out about it, you can't imagine HOW it is you have never experienced it before? Please let me introduce you to the Miraval Spa and Resort, a mere two hours away from my front doorstep. An oasis in the desert.

Did you all see me and Mia and some of our girlfriends on the {Nate Berkus Show} back in November? The day we taped our segment was one of the best days EVER! At the end of the day, Nate's amazing producer Jesse and the rest of his crew surprised all of us with beautiful gift baskets and day spa certificates to the Miraval Spa in Tucson. Now, the two of us had heard about Miraval from Oprah a few years ago when we were actually in her audience for one of her shows. The theme that day was all about health and nutrition, and she and Gayle sat on big sofas and talked about their recent trip to Tucson and the Miraval Spa. They showed a lot of hilarious footage, and almost sold us on the fact that Arizona is one of the most beautiful places on the planet. But more than that, they convinced us to put Miraval on our bucket list of places to visit in our lifetime. And so we added it to our ever-growing list, never knowing when it was to become a reality.

Last Saturday ended up being our highly anticipated, magical day at the spa. Even I struggle with words worthy to describe what it was like. Cara, Mia and I spent one of the most beautiful days of the year there. We lounged by the pool in puffy white robes, sipping smoothies and deliciously mixed juices whose clever titles promised us endless beauty and youth, and enjoyed being pampered with facials and massages. Yes, we felt like princesses, and we loved every minute of it!

We visited with several other girls who were there from all over the United States with their besties, enjoying a week of the Arizona sun and staying at Miraval the whole time to truly embrace the whole experience. They were enjoying amazing classes everyday ranging from stress management seminars to cooking classes with professional chefs, hiking and rock climbing to tennis lessons, and everything you can imagine in between. We have convinced ourselves that every year hereafter, we will add a night to our stay, until we get to stay a whole week. Now we have to convince our husbands. Please pray for us.

Of course, half the experience was the amazing food, all created under the direction of Dr. Andrew Weil, who I am a big fan of. The creativity and presentation of each dish was exquisite. The chef's special that day was pan-seared cod with a chilean sauce served with lightly sauteed green beans over sticky red rice.

Our drink was also delightful. Prickly pear herbal tea, served chilled with a lemon wedge. We toasted to our commitment of finding ourselves in the same spot next year!

One of our favorite dishes was the Quinoa Asparagus Salad with a Honey Basil Vinaigrette. If you aren't familiar with quinoa, let me give you a brief introduction. Quinoa is considered a super-grain, and is packed full of amino acids and protein. It is also gluten-free which is a big plus, and comes in three colors: white, red and black. They all cook up just like white rice. I use white a lot at my house, and usually mix it in with white rice. My kids have never noticed. My favorite way to use the red quinoa is for breakfast, covered in fresh berries and agave (or honey), drenched in cream. Always rinse your quinoa before cooking it to eliminate a bitter flavor. This is a cold salad recipe, perfect for Spring. If you make this a day ahead, be sure to hold a little bit of the dressing back, and toss it in your salad just before serving to freshen it up.

Quinoa Asparagus Salad

1 cup red quinoa, rinsed and drained
2 cups water
½ teaspoon salt
½ bunch asparagus, chopped
2 tablespoons sunflower oil
1 teaspoon salt
1 cup sundried tomatoes, rehydrated in warm water
¼ cup toasted sunflower seeds

Preheat oven to 350°F.
Place quinoa in a medium saucepan. Add water and salt, bring to a boil, reduce heat to low, cover and simmer for 20 minutes (no need to stir).
Toss asparagus with sunflower oil and salt. Spread asparagus onto a baking sheet, leaving space between pieces. Roast in the oven for 10-15 minutes, until tender.
In large bowl, combine the cooked quinoa, asparagus, sundried tomatoes and sunflower seeds. Set aside.

Honey Basil Vinaigrette

1 cup olive oil
1/3 cup apple cider vinegar
1/4 cup honey
3 tablespoons chopped fresh basil
2 cloves garlic, minced

In a bowl, whisk together the olive oil, apple cider vinegar, honey, basil, and garlic.

Toss salad and dressing together. Chill at least 4 hours.

Our day was beyond dreamy, and we were all so thankful to Nate for his generosity. What a guy! It was so thoughtful and kind of him to send some simple DIY moms off for a day of pampering. We were so grateful for the experience and blessed his name numerous times during our stay.

In true fashion, we did make it to one Goodwill, where I secured a pig trophy for under a dollar. Did you know my Dad owned a pig farm while I was growing up? I took a pig to the County Fair every year until I was in high school. It's such a symbol of my childhood, I will be finding a very special spot for it!

Until next year girls......

six design tips

2012-02-24T06:00:00.000-08:00

The only class I enjoyed in high school was lunch, so when it was time for college, it wasn't easy for me to decide what to study. I began taking general classes, thinking I might want to be an elementary school teacher, or just marry someone filthy rich and be a lady of leisure for the rest of my life. Then half way through the semester I signed up for an interior design class. It was upon the completion of my first project board that the heavens parted, angels sang, and I found my calling.

I took two more years of classes and was lucky enough to land a job at a high end design firm near my home. I worked with all kinds of colorful personalities from celebrities, to flamboyant, permanent botanical designers. It was there that I learned how to design and carry out everything from flooring to window treatments, architectural design, and detailed space planning. I even got really good at talking clients into ridiculously expensive silk chairs and antique secretaires for for their master sitting rooms.

Over the past several years, I've consulted many people in many homes and have found countless, frustrated house wives! Most of them knew what they liked, they just didn't know how to bring it to fruition. I want to share some of my favorite design tips so you can be confident designing your next room.

1. Make a plan. No one, not even the best designers in the world tackle a room with out a plan. Get a three ring binder and start tearing out your favorite magazine pages. Get on Pinterest and start pinning. Take pictures of something that excites you while you're on vacation. It doesn't really matter where you get your inspiration, just make sure you have a really good idea of what you want the outcome of your room to look like, before you start it.

What is your budget? What colors will you use? What furniture do you already have? What furniture will you need to purchase, and where will you put it? Which Fabrics will go where? Do you need functional window treatments, or will they just be aesthetic? After you've got all the details figured out, start shopping. Since I shop for good deals, I don't always get exactly what I'm looking for, but It's usually close, and something I can still work into my plan. Since I've spent the time to come up with good, solid ideas, I don't deviate (very often).

It's a one in a million chance that you'll decorate a room without a plan, and end up loving it.

2. Stacey London always says there are four ways to add interest to any outfit: color, pattern, texture, and shine. I say the same is true when designing a room. Paint an end table bright yellow, place a funky, geometric throw on a chair, put a sheep skin rug on your ottoman, use pewter drapery rods. Spaces are much more appealing when you create some eye-catching interest.

3. Nate Berkus and I agree that every room needs a balance of traditional and modern pieces. This might seem a little intimidating to pull off yourself, but look at the pictures you love in all your favorite magazines for some inspiration. Nine out of ten times, you'll find the juxtaposition of curved lines mixed with straight. If you don't know where to start, replace a traditional lamp with something more contemporary, or add a side chair with clean lines. It could be the one thing you're missing that could turn your room from fine, to fantastic.

I'm a traditional girl at heart, but my family room was starting to look much like Queen Latifa with all it's curves. Remember this piece we transformed on the {Nate Berkus show}?

It now sits perfectly between my two sofas with a pharmacy lamp on top, and adds just the right balance, plus some extra storage, to my traditional room.

4. Every room needs something natural and organic. Ladies, I hate to say it, but it's time to get rid of the silk plants. There, I said it, and I mean it! If you have a plant that looks so real, you have to touch it to decide, then you have my blessing. But if it's siting on your plant shelf in a wicker basket, and has so much dust on it that it looks gray, it's over.

Don't fret, this doesn't need to be an extravagant or costly change. A few twigs in a vase from the back yard, shells you collected last time you were at the beach, a bowl of fruit, or some wild flowers from the garden. It is one of the best ways to create balance and bring a bit of nature inside.

5. Don't stop decorating before the most important part! Accessorize. Use objects all around your house that you've collected from your travels. Find an assortment of mis-matched frames. Use a stack of books paired with other interesting items, or a collection of something you love.

When I accessorize a room, I like to pack it full of options. Then I step back and put a few things away. If you've had the same accessories in your home for a while and you think it might be time to edit but you're not sure, ask a friend (who is good at this kind of thing) to help you. Chances are it will be a great cleansing experience.

Here is my library, accessorized with a bird's nest, an organic pot, and some coral I found while vacationing at Newport Beach. I also used an urn I found at Savers (and painted blue) and an old corbel from a salvage yard. These things, mixed with a few of my favorite books add interest, but don't over crowd the shelves.

Remember {Jilly's living room book cases}? Before I took this picture, there were twice as many accessories on these shelves. We spent at least an hour editing, then painted the ampersand peacock blue for a punch of color. It's one of our favorite reveals to date.

6. Use personal photos to make a house your home. There are a million ways to display pictures of family, friends, your kids artwork, and vacations. Your home should tell a story about the people who live inside, so put things up on the walls that represent who you are. Save the living room for artwork and use your family room to let all who enter, exactly who lives inside your home.

Our friend {Elizabeth Banks} keeps everything on her family room wall clean and uniform by using simple, black frames, and printing her family photos in black and white. It doesn't get any easier than that.

Right now, I've found myself on a break from working out in the design field, but Jilly and I are in the process of coming up with a little plan. We want to be able to help you tackle all you design questions and concerns, so stay tuned for all the details as we launch some big ideas next month! We're super excited, are you?

color me coral

2012-02-21T08:06:00.000-08:00

By some sort of magical miracle last year, the little boys went back to school after Fall Break two days before Jaci started back. We jumped all over that opportunity and decided to paint her bedroom while we had some uninterrupted time. We decided on a light gray, with big white stripes for the accent wall behind her bed. Here is a great picture right before we got started. Wow. Just keeping it real.

After painting all the walls, we taped off some big stripes with Frog Tape.

The biggest tip I can give you when using Frog Tape is to lightly wet the edge with a sponge before painting your accent color. This really helps the tape adhere to the wall, and almost completely eliminates any seepage. This simple step has saved my sanity more than once!

Who knows why we don't have an "after" picture of the striped wall, but it was a success. We were probably too excited about getting ice cream and pedicures. We had a lot of fun that day, and were glad to get one thing checked off the very long list of things we want to do.

Fast forward to this past weekend. Jaci had the opportunity to go to Chicago with her high school dance team. I happily helped the little peanut pack up until midnight the night before she left, but was biting my tongue about the condition of her bedroom.

Even though she was freezing, she kept sending me cute pictures of all the fun she was having. Chicago is such a great city!

As a surprise while she was away, I decided to tidy her bedroom and tackle something on our long list of projects for her room. At this rate, we will wrap it up by the time she turns 28.

The first thing she sees when she walks into her bedroom is this little bedside table I bought in Scotland about 14 years ago.

I had a friend who took a two year assignment with Motorola in Edinburgh, and I was fortunate enough to go visit while she was there. She took me to all the best places to shop, and promised she would ship anything I bought back with her stuff. She was guaranteed the same size of overseas shipping container when she came home as when she moved over there, and she had only filled about 1/4 of it going. I know!! The luck, right? So, I found some amazing antiques for dirt cheap and they all came back with her 6 months later. It was a long 6 months to wait!

It was time to spruce this little piece up.... I toyed with the idea of new hardware, but in the end decided to use what was already on it. I took it all off, washed it well, and positioned it on an egg carton to paint.

First, I used Kilz (oil based) primer in a spray can, then a high gloss white paint, and finished it with polyurethane. The key to all of these steps is allowing proper drying time in between coats.

I decided to paint the nightstand in a high gloss coral color, to really make a statement. This was a bold choice for me. I've never used a color this bright but I'm so glad I took a chance. It helped turn this very traditional piece into something a little more youthful and modern. When Jaci walked into her room after her trip, she was so appreciative and excited.

It will all make perfect sense when the room comes together, I can almost promise you. I did a {tutorial} on the thrifted lamp and ruffled shade about a year ago.

Next project for the bedroom is a revamp of this little treasure. Just to keep me honest and motivated.

maple-bacon donuts

2012-02-17T13:11:00.000-08:00

I had some time to kill before I got on the plane to come home from San Francisco last month, so I ran into TJ Maxx, and that's when I found this...

I almost missed the plane standing in line to buy it (you know I'm not kidding) but it was worth it. For the next hour and 55 minutes, I was drooling over recipes like ricotta zeppole, lemon-filled beignets, chocolate-hazelnut fritters, salted caramel-pecan donuts, and glazed orange blossoms. Not to mention the three pages of fillings, glazes, and custard recipes in the back.

When I got home, I was excited to give the children squeezes and kisses, I am a mother first, but I found myself consumed with other thoughts like maple-bacon donuts and french crullers.

Step 1. Call Matt.

Matt is my next door neighbor and if there ever was a fry daddy, it would be him.

I'd like to give him credit for introducing my family to such things as {Bacon Explosion} (don't knock it 'till you try it). He's a fellow foodie and it's a rare day when we're not back and forth, sampling the latest offerings from the kitchen.

My doughnut making proposal had him out of his recliner in 2.5 seconds and we began scouring our kitchens for all the right ingredients. We didn't want to leave anyone out, so we called in the troops.

Together we measured, mixed, poured, and cut.

Then we gently placed them in the frier and...

waited for them to cook with our eyes lit up like children on Christmas morning.

we glazed them, gave them a light sprinkling of bacon, and....

it was LOVE. Seriously, you should have heard the sounds going on in my kitchen as I cut the first donut into 8 tiny pieces and we all had our first bite together. The combination of salty and sweet, plus the perfectly dense cake donut. An experience we will not soon forget.

Our family is SO blessed to have great neighbors on either side of us. We love them and consider them some of our dearest friends. They're the kind of people we can count on for anything, anytime. For that reason alone, we're not moving. And neither are they. Ever.

You should try these donuts with your neighbors. They're so easy, and beyond delicious.

Maple-Bacon Donuts

2 1/4 C all purpose flower
1 1/2 tsp (fresh) baking powder
1/2 tsp salt
Sift together in a bowl

2 large eggs, beaten
1/4 c granulated sugar
1/4 c packed brown sugar
Mix until creamy

Add half of the flower mixture to the egg and sugar mixture and beat just until incorporated.

Add:
1/2 C whole milk
2 T melted butter
1 tsp vanilla extract

Add the remaining flour mixture and beat, on low speed, just until the mixture comes together into a soft dough. Cover and refrigerate 30 min.

On a floured surface, roll out the dough about 1/2 inch thick and cut out with a donut cutter (we used big and small, round cookie cutters). Gather up remaining scraps and repeat rolling and cutting.

Fry in Canola oil at 360 degrees for about 1.5 minutes, turn over, and fry for another minute. Transfer donuts to a towel lined baking sheet.

Maple Glaze

1 C confectioners' sugar
1/4 C pure maple syrup (we used Karo Syrup and pure maple extract)
3 T heavy cream

Stir together sugar and maple syrup until well blended. Add the cream and whisk until smooth. Add a few more drops of cream if needed to make a smooth glaze. Glaze donuts immediately. Sprinkle the tops with cooked, chopped bacon.

a winner and a door reveal

2012-02-14T05:49:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentine's Day! While Mia is cuddled up with her man in bed all day, I will be taking care of two little boys, sick with the flu. It's a good thing I love them so!

The winner of our February Giveaway

goes to our biggest blog fan......

Entry #53, Mommy!

Can you believe this? Mommy is my very own mom! She is one of the people I love the most on this planet, and today is Valentine's Day! I was so shocked that she won, to prove it wasn't rigged, I called Andrew upstairs as my witness. This is the first time she has been able to figure out how to enter one of our giveaways (we have been blogging for 18 months), so I think it was totally meant to be. Congratulations Mommy! I'm so happy you won, but I'm even happier that you are my mom. I'm excited to help you find the perfect place in your house to hang the sign. Love you!

Remember close to a year ago when there was a major {transformation} on the outside of my front door? Maybe you haven't been with us that long......if that's the case, let me just show you. This is what used to welcome me home every time I pulled into the driveway. It's a wonder I ever came home.

It made my stomach turn every single day. So, with the help of some moulding, paint, numbers, flowers, and a brother, I turned it into something a little more appealing.

Sadly, what has been staring at me from the inside of the house for the past two years is just as appalling as what the outside used to look like! A faux oak stained door, orange-ish shellacked trim, and cream colored honeycomb blinds. I have averted my eyes every time I have walked by it since the day we moved in.

While Jeff was here revamping the outside of the entry, I very sweetly asked him if he wouldn't mind adding some new moulding around the door inside, as well as a nice bulky header on top to give it a little more of a statement. I was sure to wait until after I served him his favorite dessert to ask, and then he had no choice. All 4 of my brothers are really handy and helpful. I'm lucky.

And that is how it stayed for almost a year. It really looked awful because it was so unfinished. I just didn't know what to do with those sidelights..... I hated the blinds with a passion, however we needed some privacy, as well as some protection from the sun during the hot summer months. But I still wanted plenty of light. I know, I was asking a lot.

I finally came up with the idea to add some wood panels in the bottom sections. My super-smart woodworking friend Melanie and I headed over to Stardust Building Supply in Mesa to see what we could come up with. After searching the store and mulling over our options, we finally decided to get this solid wood door that very closely mimicked the panel design on my front door at home.

Stardust is a DIY girl's (or boy's) dream store. It is packed full of cabinets, light fixtures, doors, windows, mouldings, and all sorts of other stuff that girls like us want and need. The prices are really reasonable because it's all donated. Kind of like the Goodwill of building supplies. If you live in Arizona, look them up! They have a store in Mesa, and another in Phoenix. Lucky for us, when we got the door home we knew it was going to be perfect. At long last, things were starting to look up for me.

Now for the pesky top windows. I had a couple of decent ideas, but when I saw what smarty-pants Ashley from {7thhouseontheleft} did with one roll of contact paper, my sleepless nights were over.

She put up a great {tutorial} on how she cut a pattern out and applied it to her glass door. I knew this was the perfect job for G, and she was on her way over with my other gal pals the very next week for a day of helping at my house.

Melanie got right to work on adding the wood panels. She's a perfectionist, and I knew they were going to be just right.

G also got right after her task of covering the top sidelights with contact paper cut-outs from the pattern I chose. She kept referring to Ashley's informative tutorial, but found that wearing a pair of surgical gloves when peeling the contact paper up was super helpful because it eliminated the fingerprints she kept seeing once she applied the pattern on the glass. So keep this little tip in mind if you are ready to splurge on a roll of contact paper ($5) and try this super awesome technique on a window at your house.

By the end of the day, I was pretty much ready to caulk everything really well, prime and paint. I painted the door a color I mixed up myself from three leftover paints I already had, and painted all the trim out in a white semi-gloss. And here she is, all ready for her "after" pictures.

It's like being in a whole new house every time I pass by the front door now. It's really quite thrilling!

Just in case you were wondering what Mia and the other girls were up to that blessed day, a couple more reveals are well on the way!

LOVE tree + free downloads

2012-02-10T08:00:00.000-08:00

Every Monday evening is family night in our home. It's the one night of the week when we clear our schedules and count on being together. Sometimes we learn about Jesus, sometimes we bake treats or do yard work for neighbors, and sometimes we get out the board games and see who will be chutes n' ladders champion.

This week I was in charge, and decided we would make a LOVE tree to put on our kitchen table. I cut down some branches from the neighbor's yard and spray painted them white. Then I made some circle tags for each of us to write love notes on.

As we filled them out, we clipped them onto the tree and tied hearts onto branches with red ribbon.

My boys thought it was fun, and everyone felt good while we read them out loud to each other.

If your family wants to make a tree, go {here} for the printable, circle tags.

I found these hearts while reading a freakishly cute blog I stumbled upon, {Simple as That}.

Go {here} to download.

Rebecca is an fantastic photographer and has lots of tips and tricks to get you inspired. She also has a few other free printables that I'm going to use for the Nino's Valentine's Day party at school. I love a time saver!

I don't really get into the stuffed teddy bears and heart necklaces on Valentine's day, but a few years back, my man and I started a fun tradition. We get the kids off to school, and and as soon as they're gone, we get right back into bed. We put a TV in our room, order take out, and watch movies in our "PJ's" all day. It's one of the perks of being self-employed, and since my love language is quality time, it's one of the things I look forward to all year.

PS. Are we allowed to sign up for our own giveaway? Jilly painted this quote that could be so cute in my bedroom! If you want it too, sign up {here}.

giveaways galore

2012-02-07T05:49:00.000-08:00

We have this adorable friend named Katie who is the brainchild and owner of {Vintage Rose Wraps}.

Her irresistible headbands are sold across the United States in all sorts of boutiques and quaint shops. She is the mother of five, and we think she is secretly Wonder Woman. There's no denying she has super powers.

Katie contacted us to see if we wanted to participate in her {giveaway} that starts today. Vintage Rose Wraps is celebrating 10,000 fans on their Facebook page! To show their adoration for their supporters, they are hosting the mother of all giveaways. They have over 90 vendors participating, each one giving away a (minimum) $50 prize or gift certificate. One winner is going to take it ALL! This is the best giveaway we have ever seen, and we think you will agree!

We decided to give a pair of hand-painted, vintage style signs. These are perfect for February. And every other month of the year.

You better hustle on over to their {blog} and enter yourself in that giveaway! Immediately. Can you imagine winning? It's over $5,500 worth of fabulous goods!

We are also going to give another hand-painted sign away right here on our little baby blog. One of you will have the pleasure of hanging this plaque on the perfect wall in your home. The delicate frame is vintage, and it was made with pure love. And now we want to keep it. But we aren't going to.

Three chances to win:

1. Subscribe to our blog

2. Become a follower of our blog

3. "Like" us on Facebook

We will pick a random winner next Tuesday, February 14th, the celebratory day of love. Please remember to post a separate comment for each thing you do to increase your chances.

As a cute condolence prize, every single one of you can download some of our free printables.

These were created last year, but are standing the test of time, and are still just as darling this year. There are four different tags. Please visit this {post} to download and print them at home. Mia also created some very cute cards just a couple weeks ago, designed to use for wedding gifts, but also appropriate for Valentine's Day. You can find the two options {here}.

Now everyone is a winner! Best of luck to all of you.

xoxo,
j+m

i just can't live without

2012-01-31T09:36:00.000-08:00

From every shade of Wet n' Wild lipstick, to insert-able foam shoulder pads, and water bras, there's not a beauty product out there my three sisters and I haven't tried. We fell for the electric blue mascara, mile high bangs, and bad perms. My hair still hasn't recovered. Who remembers the "Mane and Tail" craze or the gallons of Rave 4 we went through?

We do.

Contempo portraits, Epilady, Girbaud jeans, Paul Mitchell, Units (remember those crazy knit clothes with the hole in the armpit?), 2000 calorie mascara, Madonna, Reebok's, Aqua Net, and banana clips. The 80's were unkind and just like our mothers told us we would, we regret it.

It's 20 years later and my sisters and I are still trying new stuff and sharing all our secrets. One of them passed on this first beauty tip during a camping trip years ago and I still say a silent thank you in my prayers each night.

#1. Dry Shampoo. I featured it in a {Friday's Find} last year, but it's definitely worth mentioning again.
For those of us who don't have time (or shall I say make time) to wash our hair every day, there's a simple solution. Shake the can, spray dry shampoo in your hair, tousle, and brush. Done. As I mentioned before, don't waste your money on expensive brands. This one works the best. End of conversation.

#2. Sunless tanning lotion. Some girls are born with brown skin, some can lay in the sun and get brown skin, and some of us have never had, nor will ever have brown skin. Don't worry, I've spent hours in the sun trying to get it anyway, and will pay for it later in life in the form of wrinkles and skin cancer.

Since I haven't lathered up in baby oil and climbed up on my best friend's roof in over 20 years, thank goodness for this.

Buy the dark shade, even if you're ghostly white. Trust me, it works the best. My cousin used to work at a spa that charged upwards of $100 for a one time application. If you need a little color on your skin, this product is worth every penny. I also mix in a dab with my daily moisturizer for some color on my face. My sisters and I buy the 32oz bottle at Amazon.com and it lasts well over a year.

#3. Shimmer brick. One winter morning I was watching Good Morning America when Bobbi Brown was talking about make up tips. Not the "Don't be Cruel" Bobby Brown, he's good for a tip if you want to get high. I'm talking about Oprah's famous make-up artist.

I heard about this product and literally went out and got it that day. It's a bit pricey at $40, but it lasts FOREVER. I'm only on my 2nd compact in 5 years. Applied with a large powder brush, dust it everywhere the sun might kiss your face, ie. cheek bones, forehead, nose, chin. It gives you a nice dewy glow and makes your skin look healthy and alive. I use the color bronze.

#4. AmLactin. I was out with the girls one night and my friend, Amanda, professed her undying love for this lotion. She picked it up at Costco for $18 and claimed it worked miracles on her rough, calloused heels. She said her feet were now as soft as butter, and her cuticles were every bit as tender as a new born babes. Although it was not in the most appealing packaging, nor did it smell like something off the shelf at Bath and Body Works, she was obsessed with it. The next time I went to Costco, I picked up a bottle.

The other day I found an on-line article called {The 13 things your podiatrist wants you to know}, "If you have dry, cracked feet, try AmLactin. Apply it every night before bed and say good bye to great-grandma Imo's feet.

#5. DIY manicure. In between throwing up and eating jalapeno flavored Cheetos (pregnant), I learned a thing or two in beauty school. Here are a few tips. Always file natural nails from the outside in. Don't saw them back and forth, it weakens the nails and makes them prone to chipping and breaking.

Before you polish, push back your cuticles with an orange wood stick and lightly buff your nails to remove any oils on the surface. Use a good bonding base coat, two coats of polish, and a top coat. Your polish will stay looking picture perfect for twice as long. I love the entire {OPI nail care} line.

Here's another tip. I wear rubber gloves when I do the dishes and scrub toilets and my polish doesn't chip for several days.

I'm dying to know your best beauty secrets. I'll send my new favorite OPI color to the one I like the most!

working girl.....and a cookie

2012-01-27T05:58:00.000-08:00

The working girl I am referring to is me. 6 days, full time. It almost killed me. Thank goodness I lived to tell you all about it.

My dear friend Stacey found herself without a front office girl at her law firm, so I volunteered to temp for a couple days until she could get things sorted out. You see, in my previous life I was going to be a business woman. I went to college and graduated as a Paralegal. However, I made the mistake of interning for a divorce attorney, and that six weeks soured my view about all my hard college work. So many upset women, so many angry men.....this was NOT the field for me. I dropped it like a hot rock and decided to have a baby instead. Because I was really smart at age 20.

Fast forward 18 years and I found myself sitting at the front desk at an attorney's office, all dressed up. I can't lie, it was pretty exciting. If I were home, I would have been scrubbing white tile in my sweats. But here I was in heels and lipstick, scheduling appointments, making deposits, and sipping my ice water. I even got to say things like, "Please stop harassing our clients, or our firm will be forced to sanction the courts." Scandalous I tell you.

I knew my working days were going to be short-lived, so I did something special. I officially dubbed Friday as "Cookie Friday".

"What's that?" everyone in the office wanted to know.

"That's when I bring cookies in for the whole office!"

I think I was more excited than anyone else.

And so I made a delectable treat. These cookies are perfect for Valentine's Day, or for anyone you really love, any day of the week. Don't let their fanciness scare you. They are so easy! Minimal ingredients and you don't even have to chill the dough.

Raspberry Almond Shortbread Cookies

1 cup butter, softened
2/3 cup white sugar
3/4 teaspoon almond extract
2 cups flour
1/2 cup seedless raspberry jam

Glaze

1/2 cup powdered sugar
3/4 teaspoon almond extract
milk, one teaspoon at a time til desired consistancy
red food coloring (optional)

Cream butter and sugar. Add almond extract, then flour and mix just until dough comes together. Roll into 1 1/2 inch balls and place on ungreased cookie sheets. Make a small hole in the middle of each ball, and fill with raspberry jam. Bake at 350 for 14-18 minutes. Take them out when the outsides barely start to turn golden.

In a small bowl, mix the glaze ingredients and add enough milk until it's a nice, smooth consistency. I like to add a drop of red food coloring to make the glaze pink. Drizzle over cooled cookies.

Now go enjoy a plate of them while watching Sister Wives, which I have yet to see but hear is the most intriguing program on reality t.v. these days. Is this true?

Tuesday was my last day of work, and so I got everyone in the office excited about my Retirement Party. Stacey ordered pizza, and we all gathered in the conference room, eating and talking about my hard work and dedication to the firm. The most perfect part of the whole experience was when Andrew walked in while everyone was singing "For She's a Jolly Good Fellow" to me, as I was seated at the head of that enormous table. Priceless.

On a serious note, you working mothers are amazing. I honestly have NO idea how you do it. My six days of 9 - 5 at the office were intense. And then I had to come home and do everything I would have done during the day late into the night and early the next morning. I have some serious respect for any of you who are working while raising a family. Maybe you will want to start the tradition of "Cookie Friday" in your office. It could possibly get you a raise? I mean, they did ask me to be their permanent temp. I'm sure they are mostly going to need me on Fridays.....

love is in the details

2012-01-24T12:00:00.000-08:00

Thanks to all you girls who signed up for our Jan giveaway. The Shabby Apple necklace goes to:

# 64 AMY!

(please email us at meandjilly@gmail.com and let us know where to send it)

Stop by the {shabbyapple.com} and check out all their amazing clothing and accessories. Don't forget to type in the code NEWYEAR at checkout for 20% off your entire purchase through the end of January (excludes the Sidesaddle line).

On another note, one brisk, December morning I got a call from my friend Blake.

Blake: Hey Mia it's Blake, I was wondering if you could help me out.

Mia: Of course I can, what's up?

Blake: I'm going to ask Angela to marry me, and I need some help bringing my plan to fruition. I want to create a vintage picnic in a grove of trees. I've spent hours on Pinterest and I know exactly what she loves. I drove around and found the perfect spot, I just need help putting it all together. I'm going to grab our favorite take out for dinner and her favorite cup cakes for dessert.
I found these old light bulbs that I want to put flowers in and hang from the trees. Angela will love them. She also loves roses, birds, and vintage books. Can you tell me where to find the perfect flowers and help me arrange them?

Mia: Count me in.

I hung up the phone and had weird thoughts, like even though I'm happily married, and probably old enough to be his mother, maybe I want to marry him!

So Blake came over to show me his pins and talk over some ideas.

We spent a good part of the morning putting his plan in motion.

I had just rained for three solid days, but today the clouds parted and the sun came out.

Blake was adorably nervous, but I assured him it was going to be perfect.

He drove Angela to the designated spot, took off the blind fold, and read a poem. Every line was meticulously thought through.

Then he pulled a diamond ring out of his coat pocket and asked her to marry him.

She said yes.

Angela and Blake's parents snuck over to congratulate them and I snapped a picture of her dad getting his first look at her engagement ring. Worth 1,000 words.

With Valentine's day just around the corner, love is in the air. I have two friends who are planning their weddings right now. Such an exciting time in life. With wedding planning comes wedding gifts. I designed two note cards just in case you know anyone who is tying the knot too. Click on the image to download and print.

On the 7th of January, my man and I celebrated our wedding anniversary. He surprised me with a trip to San Francisco, booked a bed and breakfast in an old, Victorian mansion, took me ice skating in Union Square, secured tickets to the Michael Jackson Immortal Tour (which was incredible), took me shopping at all the local thrift stores, and was my personal guide on a culinary tour. So blessed that after all these years, his desire is simply to make me happy.

If I could give Blake and Angela a little advice, here's what it would be. I can't say we've never gone to bed with unresolved issues, or that I've always been a pleasure to have in "class", but after 17 years of marriage, here's what I know, for sure.

-Two unselfish people can always make a marriage work
-Agree to disagree (thank you Dr. Phil)
-Surprises keep love fresh and unpredictable
-Marriage is simply about two people helping one another reach their ultimate potential.

great give-away

2012-01-17T06:10:00.000-08:00

To kick the new year off right, our friends at {Shabby Apple} are offering one of YOU an adorable piece of vintage-inspired jewelry. This piece is called "Through the Looking Glass" and is so charming. It opens up like a locket for you to put a tiny something inside. It's simple, classic, and stunning. This necklace retails for $68 on their {website}, but you can be wearing it around that neck of yours for absolutely nothing! Someone is going to win it, right? We think it might as well be you!

The reason we adore this particular piece is because it could be worn with your favorite jeans and t-shirt, as well as a beautiful dress for a night on the town. Shabby Apple is more than just jewelry. They have everything from swimwear and fitness attire, to beautiful dresses and evening wear. And, did you know they have a line devoted to redheads only? It's called Carrot Tops. Finally! We are kicking ourselves for not coming up with that brilliant idea.....

As an added bonus, they are offering 20% off their entire site through the end of the month. (excluding the Sidesaddle Line) Use code NEWYEAR at checkout.

There are a couple of ways for you to enter to win:

Your first entry MUST be to "like" Shabby Apple on Facebook. Please come back here and leave us a comment letting us know that you did to be entered. Easy.

For an additional entry, become a follower of our blog, and leave us a comment.

For one more chance, "like" Jilly N' Mia on Facebook, and be sure to come back here and leave us a comment letting us know you did so. We would love you twice as much as we already do!

Remember to leave a separate comment for each thing you do, for a total of three entries. We will pick a winner next Tuesday, January 24th. This winner must have a US shipping address, and there will be no exchanges. Good luck to you!

xoxo,
j & m

back to life.

2012-01-06T06:00:00.000-08:00

Hi friends, it's nice to be back. But if we're being honest, not waking to an alarm clock or counting one single calorie for a couple weeks was glorious.

We are looking forward to a beautiful new year, and have lots of aspirations for our little blog. That being said, sometimes "life" has a funny way of popping in at some pretty inopportune times, and we find it hard to be completely consistent. As mom's who blog, we know that many of you can understand the difficult line that must be drawn when it comes to things that take you away from your families. We are just two simple girls who are trying our hardest to juggle all that life demands, while still carving out a little time to accomplish things that we are passionate about and can share with you. Keeping our priorities in check is very important to us, and sometimes blogging can't be at the top of that list. Just know that if we disappear for a spell, we will be back as quickly as we can, and we will miss you like crazy while we're gone!

2012 holds so much promise and hope, and we have no intentions of falling off your radar. Our plans are to have the best year yet! In fact, January has already started off with a bang, with Jilly's industrial workbench being featured in this month's Cottages and Bungalows magazine.

Special thanks to Jickie Torres for the opportunity, as well as Jessica Warner for the amazing professional photography. We really appreciate both of you!

As an added bonus, we received a sweet email from Patty in Texas of how she recreated the infamous Craigslist find for her own entertainment center. Click on {this link} to look at the pictures of her nearly identical replication. Her attentive husband duplicated every detail for her. Patty, don't let that man out of your sight! And thanks so much for sharing.

2012 better watch out, cause here we come!!

xoxo,
j & m

giveaway winner

2011-12-20T09:08:00.000-08:00

And the winner of our Christmas giveaway (via random.org) goes to.........

Comment #108, Shelley Goodman

A sincere thanks to all who entered and left sweet comments. We wish we could send the same package to each and every one of you.

The two of us will be taking a short break from blogging over the next couple of weeks to enjoy time with our families. We hope all of you have a wonderful holiday season, filled with more love and happiness than you can imagine!

As we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ worldwide, we believe he has enough wisdom and compassion to cover us all, and we find great peace and hope in the fact that we are all part of one big human family, all of us God's children. May each one of us take some time to care deeply for someone else this season. Someone who is wounded and struggling. Someone who might really need us. For among all the beautiful reasons to celebrate this wonderful season, love is the greatest of them all.

amazing photography by {Mark Mabry}, a local friend

Merry Christmas and our most sincere well wishes for this coming year to you and yours.

xoxo,
j & m

grown-up christmas party

2011-12-16T18:11:00.000-08:00

I was going to say "adults only" christmas party, but that sounded scandalous.

About 6 years ago, after my baby sister got married, I decided to start a new tradition in the Scott Family. Erica was a well thought out afterthought by my parents, and since she is so much younger than the rest of us, she had been relegated to the "kids table and activities" until the day she tied the knot at age 21. To officially welcome her into the world of adulthood, I hosted a Family Christmas Party, no angels under the legal age invited.

I have a big family, number two of six kids, and we are all married. Between the six of us, there are already 19 kids and counting. There is rarely an opportunity for just the adults to convene, and you can imagine the mayhem when we all get together with the children in tow. My plan was to have a wonderful dinner party by candlelight, a gift exchange, and meaningful conversation to reconnect with my family without having to burp a baby or tend to a bathroom emergency brought on by the current child in training. It was so much fun, and we have kept the tradition alive, rotating through hosts ever since. This year, it was back to being my turn.

Of course when you are going to be feeding a group of 14 people a full meal, one of the first things to think about is the menu. My choice of food for the evening went a little something like this:

appetizers: shrimp cocktail and baked brie with french bread
salad: antipasto
entree: double layer baked ziti and homemade breadsticks with herbs and butter
dessert: gingerbread trifle with custard and fresh raspberries

The baked ziti is a recipe from Rachael Ray, and it really does feed an army. I even had a little bit left at the end of the night. Find the recipe {here}. The only change I made was to add some browned sweet italian sausage to my red sauce to make it a little more hearty. This dish is something that can be made ahead, then popped into the oven for 40 minutes before everyone shows up.

The gingerbread trifle is so yummy that I'm going to give you the recipe at the end of this post for a little treat. It can also be made a full day ahead, which is a big timesaver when hosting.

Probably my favorite thing to do when planning an event is the table set-up. I always do it a day or two in advance now that my boys are older and aren't quite as mischievous as they once were. I know that everyone doesn't have that advantage, but you will, someday. And then you will be sad that your babies don't want you to rock them to sleep anymore.... and you might even wish that maybe they were tiny and mischievous again.....

I just used stuff that I already had, and of course lots of candles. Everything looks better at night when the lights are low and the candles are lit. ......Ifyouknowwhatimean...... I had a bunch of straight glass vases in various sizes. I filled them with fake snow and some spare sprigs I found while sweeping up after hanging some garland. They are so wintry and will mesh right in with my decor through January. I did spring for 1 bunch of white tulips at Costco.

I also tagged each goblet with a monogram. This served as a place card, as well as helping to keep track of one's drink throughout the evening.

I ended up setting two tables because there were so many of us. And yes, I'm definitely planning on picking a paint color in 2012.

We ate and visited by candlelight at the tables for an hour or so, with Michael Buble's new Christmas album playing softly in the background. Then we gathered in the living room for a rousing game of Left, Center, Right.

Oh... this game is a MUST HAVE. I got mine at WalMart. Our dear friends Ben and Kelly introduced it to us last Christmas Eve when we spent a delightful evening in their home. It started out innocently enough.

Getting a ~~little~~ lot more intense as the game progressed.

And in the end, it was super exciting! I WON! Which means I made myself a cool $42 cash since we played with dollar bills. Get this game. It's such a fun one to play with a big group.

On to the gift exchange which was also very enjoyable. Jeff got a woman's scarf, and I'm pretty sure Rachelle was more excited about it than he was.

I ended up with a tin of delicious, wafer thin gingersnaps, and Andrew got a sleeve of golf balls. He's pretty much set for Christmas now.

However, the biggest highlight of the evening came when Daddy announced to all of us that as of January 1st he will be retiring. He has never missed a day of work in 43 years. That's a true story. Can you even believe it? I don't know anyone on this planet who is a harder worker than my Dad. What an example he has been to me of perseverance. I love him so much, and am so excited for him. No one deserves it more. I've already invited him to move in with us for the winter. I'll provide him three square meals a day, and he can just putter around my house with his tool belt on! Too bad five identical offers have already been submitted. I think my mom wants him to herself for awhile. Whatever.

We always end with a good family picture, and then a bad one. (which is Erica's idea every year) Please enjoy my fun family. Oldest to youngest, left to right, with my parents in front. Matt (brother) and Kim, me and my man, Ryan (brother) and Amy, Nate (brother) and Erica, Jeff (brother) and Rachelle, Brett and Erica (sister).

And that about sums it up. Are you still reading?!

With some preparation and thought, anyone can throw a fun party. If you start thinking about it now, by next Christmas you will be completely ready. You should probably make the gingerbread trifle and eat the whole thing yourself before you think about serving it to your guests. Oh, am I the only one that does that?

Gingerbread Trifle

Gingerbread:
2 1/2 c. flour
1 1/2 tsp. baking soda
1 tsp. ground ginger
1 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 cup butter, slightly softened
1/2 cup sugar
3/4 cup dark molasses
2 large eggs
3/4 cup buttermilk

Heat oven to 350. Grease and flour a 9 x 13 pan. In a small bowl, whisk together the flour, baking soda, ginger, cinnamon and salt. In a large bowl, beat the butter with an electric mixer until soft and creamy. Add sugar and molasses and beat again until the mixture is well blended and fluffy, about 2 minutes. Add the eggs, one at a time, beating after each addition. Slowly pour in the buttermilk and beat well. Reduce speed to low and slowly add half the flour mixture to the bowl and beat until blended. Repeat with other half. Pour the batter into the pan and bake for 40-45 minutes. Let it cool completely, then cover tightly with plastic wrap until ready to use. Can be stored at room temperature for up to two days.

Custard:
9 large eggs
3/4 cup sugar
1/4 cup flour
3 cups whole milk
1 1/4 tsp. vanilla

Divide the eggs yolks from the whites. Place yolks in a large bowl, and beat with electric mixer on medium-high speed with the sugar until mixture is pale yellow and thick, about 2 minutes. Reduce the speed to low and beat in the flour. In a medium saucepan, bring the milk to a boil. Slowly pour half the milk into the egg mixture and beat until blended, then pour the mixture into the remaining milk in the pan. Over medium heat, bring the ingredients to a boil while whisking constantly. Allow the custard to boil for 1 minute as you continue to whisk. Remove the pan from the heat and stir in the vanilla. Let custard cool slightly, then cover it's surface with a piece of plastic wrap to prevent a skin from forming. Let the custard cool completely, then fold in 2 cups of real whipped cream that has been slightly sweetened. Put in the refrigerator until ready to use.

Raspberry mixture:
3 (12 oz) packages frozen unsweetened raspberries, thawed
3 T. sugar

Assembling the trifle:
Cut gingerbread into small chunks. (about 2 inches). Put a nice thick layer in the bottom of the trifle dish. Spoon some of the raspberry mixture over, then top with some of the custard filling. Repeat the layering two or three more times, (depending on the size of your dish) ending with the custard layer on top. Wrap tightly with plastic wrap, and chill for at least 8 hours, or overnight. Before serving, top with fresh raspberries. Now eat it!

Don't forget to enter our {christmas giveaway}. You still have a few days left!

a few of our favorite things, for you!

2011-12-12T06:03:00.000-08:00

The holiday season is in full swing, and the two of us are up to the freckles on our foreheads in family parties, friend parties, classroom parties, work parties, church parties, neighborhood parties, and any other parties we can invite ourselves to!

Throwing a good party is a lot work, which turns into a lot of fun. Our little blog is an ongoing party for us, and what fun is a party without a thoughtful gift?

We are offering up some of our favorite things that one of you will win! Don't think it's impossible...Jilly won the December giveaway last year from {Jones Design Company} and it's true, she might have thought she won the lottery.

Included in this month's package of love are four things: A soft, warm, chevron patterned scarf, a $50 gift card from Anthropologie, a set of paints from DecoArt, and a christmas pennant.

We are so excited to have DecoArt as our very first sponsor! They have graciously offered up the paints we used on one of the pieces we transformed for the {Nate Berkus Show}. Mia had a ho-hum nightstand and some serious vision.

With the help of the paints, we turned it into a showpiece with a faux zinc finish.

These paints are a dream to work with! The perfect consistency and smooth, even coverage. Have you been to the DecoArt website lately? It's chock full of excellent products and we can't wait to bring you some great tutorials using their line next year.

Wanna win? You've gotta play!

simply make a comment explaining why you'd love to win- 1 entry

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christmas pennant

2011-12-06T06:32:00.000-08:00

When I was a kid, my mom would get out the wood loom and we would begin making Christmas gifts for our teachers, in July. Well there were seven of us, and we each had three teachers, so it was imperative that we get a head start. Just thinking about all the hours spent weaving, tying, and coughing up yarn balls, makes me want to curl into the fetal position. I'm sure Mrs. Kremiller still uses the pot holder I made her 28 years ago and thinks about my little freckled face and feathered mullet every time.

This year I came up with a simple handmade gift for the Nino's teacher. I love the idea of a homemade gift, but this time of year I don't have hours to spend crafting them. I thought a Christmas pennant was the perfect solution and it's so easy, the kids can help.

Here's what you'll need.

Take your previously made template, trace and cut 7 double width triangles to make 14 total.

Paint the triangle with white craft paint and let it dry.

Using the black paint, stencil the letters onto the triangles.

Fold the top half inch over and make a crease.

Cut a 2.5 yard piece of jute. Tuck the jute up into the fold, one letter at a time, and use a zig-zag stitch on your sewing machine to secure the top of each triangle shut.

Glue a piece of decorative trim to the top of each triangle.

If you want, take 100 grit sand paper to lighten up the letters and distress some of the edges.

A few weeks ago I bribed the boys and we headed over to a field with my friend, Ashley, for a photo shoot. I decided to bring the pennant along for a few Christmas shots. Brody is now driving a new corvette and the Nino gets cup cakes for breakfast every morning.

I wish I could show you our little foster baby's face, but for privacy purposes I had to blur him a bit. Humbug. Just imagine his silly grin, crystal blue eyes, and tiny freckles across his nose. He's more adorable than words. We're not sure how long he'll get to stay, but we're loving every inch of him while he's here.

sockies tutorial

2011-11-29T10:13:00.000-08:00

Please tell me you remember the very clever turtleneck Dickie........

The perfect thing to wear under your winter sweater without adding bulk. I had one in every color. They really were smart, back in the late 80's. You with me?

Once in awhile, I have my very own original idea. I decided to bring the Dickie back, with a twist. It's called a Sock Dickie, or a Sockie for short.

You know the super cute socks that all the girls are wearing under their tall riding boots? Upon investigation, I discovered that all the cute ones were $20 or more. Not only did I want a pair or two, but so did the other girl in my house, which was going to cost a mini-fortune. Mia and I were heading out for a day of thrifting and stopped by one of our favorite places, St. Vincent De Paul, where all the clothing was $1 per piece. I loaded up on some sweaters of various colors and styles.

We also stopped by SAS, our local fabric and trim mecca. Do not go in there hungry or with a full bladder. You'll be sorry.

I cut my sweater arm off at 12 inches.

The seam line of the sweater is going to go on the inside of your leg, so it will never be seen. I cut a 1.5 inch slit down the side, and a little towards the front of the Sockie rather than right down the side. I just wanted a little detail to show if I was facing someone head-on. I mean, who is going to notice it on the side unless they don't take their eyes off of you until they are behind you? I want to encourage people to look at me from the front, not the back.

I started at the back part of the slit with my trim, about halfway down. I thought this would be the most least noticeable place for my raw edges to join up.

I pulled the slit in the sock toward me until it created a straight line of sewing, and started stitching the trim on.

You want to figure your corner out before you get to it. Just tuck your trim behind until you round the corner nicely, then stitch it on.

Now, for the top edge of the Sockie, you are going to want to stretch your sweater fabric, as well as your trim (mine was stretchy trim) as you sew. This way it will gather back up when you are done. I think it would work just as well if you were using trim that wasn't stretchy, just be sure to stretch your sweater fabric while sewing it on.

I just overlapped my raw edges about 1/4 inch, and cut off the excess. Lastly, I sewed two little, white buttons on each one for that adorable detail.

All done! Stylish Sockies for $1.50 a pair. Are you excited?

If your super lucky like Mia, you'll find a sweater with a cute scalloped edge on the sleeves, and simply cut them off to create your custom Sockies. No sewing necessary.

I fear there might be a cat fight when Mia comes to retrieve these from Jaci. She loves them!

A cheap and easy way to boost your holiday wardrobe. I bet your niece or sister-in-law would love a pair! Hopefully they don't read this post and discover how cheap you are....... There's no question my family already knows I am!

a winner and thanksgiving re-cap

2011-11-25T09:48:00.000-08:00

Jilly and I stuffed ourselves silly yesterday and between the turkey and the pie, we took a moment to pick the winner of our November giveaway.

Congratulations #128 Jamie Andersen!!!

Please contact us at meandjilly@gmail.com so we can have your custom address sign done in time for Christmas. Guess you can't say you never win any more sistah!

Here are some highlights of our Thanksgiving day at Jilly's. The food was unbelievable, the weather was overcast (it sprinkled for about 10 seconds), and the company was delightful. This year we had some of Jilly's family and some of mine for dinner. The children were well behaved (we only had one shiner), and the men did the dishes. Ya, it was pretty perfect.

For all you brave and crazy black Friday shoppers out there, I need a new desktop computer if you wouldn't mind grabbing me one. I've been blogging from a laptop for the last year and well, I SNAPPED! I'm getting a new computer today if it's the last thing I do. On line, of course.

Now on to the rest of my Christmas list. You better watch out!

Acorn Tutorial

2011-11-22T06:05:00.000-08:00

Cuddling up in bed with my latest Better Homes and Gardens magazine has always been a guilty pleasure of mine. I came upon this great idea one night last week just before I slipped into dreamland. Adorable velvet acorns, made by this equally adorable man named Sweet Paul. I haven't had a lot of down time this week, but I can't wait to check his {blog} out this weekend.

The next morning, I was on it! We don't have acorns around here, but I got on {Etsy} and ordered some caps from Kristy in Indiana. She sent them out that day and I had them by Saturday. Her prices are fantastic ($3.50 for 50), and she has 200 left, so you better get on it as well! This is a fun project to do when you are waiting up until midnight for your teenage daughter and can only fantasize about the day when you will get to go to bed at a decent hour on a weekend ever again. Seriously.

Unfortunately for me, there was no velvet to be found in my stash at such an hour, so I used what I had on hand. Some silk and satin in a few different shades of blue. This project is so easy and cute! I had a dozen completed within the hour.

Start by cutting circles from your fabrics of choice. I used sophisticated things like drinking glasses and plastic cups for my patterns. The reason I used two sizes is because some of the acorn caps were big, and some were smaller, and I wanted to use them all.

After cutting your circles, hand stitch a basting stitch around the perimeter and set a cotton ball inside. I used two cotton balls piled on top of each other for my bigger circles.

Pull your thread tight and take a couple stitches to close the opening.

The final step is to pick the perfect cap for your little acorn and marry them with a little hot glue.

I placed mine on my antique buffet, scattered among my otherwise monochromatic fall decor, for a little pop of color.

I think a dozen of them would make the perfect Thanksgiving hostess gift, don't you?

We are celebrating at our home this year, and planning on around 30 people. Being surrounded by wonderful friends and family will make Thanksgiving really special. I am already dreaming of Mommy's homemade noodles, bathed in gravy and ladled over my mashed potatoes, Mia's {portobello stuffing}, and warm {apple pie} with fresh cream.

I hope each of you have a glorious holiday, filled with memories that will last a lifetime.

You still have time to enter our {giveaway}. Mia and I will choose the winner Thanksgiving Day!

my favorite holiday + the most delish stuffing

2011-11-18T06:38:00.000-08:00

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. Not only is it the best excuse to put on my stretchy pants and eat myself into oblivion, its the perfect opportunity to pause from the all the cares of the world and just be thankful.

One of my favorite Thanksgiving memories is the year my family woke up before the crack of dawn, drove an hour out of town, and competed in a relay triathlon. Todd did the 400m swim, I completed the 13 mile bike ride, and Brody did the 5k run. We took 2nd place and have the silver medals to prove it! Then it was off to Jilly's for dinner to reclaim every calorie we'd burned off.

These are our friends and neighbors who competed with us. I was obviously feeling very victorious.

Last year we hosted Jilly's family and many of her extended family in our back yard. The weather was a perfectly, sunny 80 degrees and the food and company was extraordinary.

Between dinner and pie, we took a breather and had some friendly competition in the game room.

Then came dessert at Jilly's. She and mommy made pumpkin trifle, {sweet potato cheesecake}, cream pies, pecan pie, and of course the traditional, pumpkin pie. By the end of the night we had made ourselves sick and rolled home to do it all over again the next day. Some people are leftover snobs, not me.

Our thanksgiving menu consists of the same thing every year, and each dish is lovingly made to absolute perfection.

Deep pit, barbequed turkey
Mashed potatoes and gravy
Elizabeth's rolls and honey butter
Mommy's homemade stuffing
Sweet potato souffle
Cranberry conserve
Glazed carrots with dill and brown sugar
Mommy's homemade pies, in all varieties

This year I'm adding one more thing to the menu.

I had {Chef Brad's} portobello mushroom, stuffing a few years ago while attending a holiday cooking class and it's so good, I dream about it all year. It does not disappoint!

Fresh Sage and Portobello Mushroom stuffing

4 cups sliced sourdough bread (I use a baguette and slice it about 1/2" thick)
1/2 lb bacon
2 stalks celery
1 med onion
2 portobello mushrooms, cut into 1inch pieces
4 T olive oil
balsamic vinegar, splash
1/4 bundle fresh parsley
1/4 cup each fresh sage, thyme, marjoram
2 eggs
1/2 C milk
1 tsp salt
1 tsp pepper
2 C chicken or turkey stock

Chop bacon, place in skillet and cook until crispy, add onion and saute until tender. Add mushrooms, olive oil, and splash of vinegar. Saute until tender. In a large bowl, add the remaining ingredients with bread. Toss with cooked ingredients. Bake uncovered in a 350 degree oven for 30-45 minutes.

See our delicious cranberry conserve recipe and other Thanksgiving table ideas {here} and {here}.

This year I'm grateful that all of my basic needs are met. I'm thankful for a supportive husband who is SO easy going and accepting of my flaws. I'm thankful to know that whatever I might be going through, there is someone who knows me and sees the greater picture. I know that whatever happens in my life, my Heavenly Father is in charge. I'm thankful for the opportunity to slow down and count my blessings.

The Tale of Four Bookcases

2011-11-11T07:00:00.001-08:00

What's happening on the Nate Berkus Show today you might wonder? We are!! Get your tv on! And please pray we don't embarrass ourselves....

I'm a big fan of making a house work for the family that lives in it. If there are rooms that aren't being utilized, turn them into functional spaces that you need!

The house I'm living in now has a formal living room/dining room combo that just wasn't being enjoyed. After living here for almost a year, I hatched a plan to turn the dining room space into my home office.

Problem number one: It's one long, continuous room.

The solution? Find a gigantic, former built-in wall unit at a thrift store, borrow a truck and trailer, and persuade your husband to drive over an hour to pick it up in a rain storm. No biggie.

Skip the drama. We placed the big built-in behind the living room sofa as a divider, with the storage part facing toward my new office space. One room divided into two, instantly!

Problem number two: Her backside. So unsightly. Facing right into my formal living room.

I laid awake at night for months thinking of a way to cover it up. Wallpaper? Fabric? A board and batten treatment? Nothing was convincing me into action.

Until the day I was reading one of my favorite blogs, {Little Green Notebook}, and saw Jenny's library. Done.

After tirelessly searching Craigslist for the ideal thing for weeks, I came up with four, perfectly sized beauties. This sweet couple was taking 12 of them out of the home they had just purchased. I didn't have the heart to tell them they were crazy! The units were big, brown, and kind of homely, but I could smell the potential, and I had just hit the jackpot. They were $200 total. I was swooning over the tongue and groove backs.

Fortunately for me, I was hosting {Club Project} that month, and I put Lettie and Cara right on painting them. Not a word of complaining from these two warriors. They just got 'er done. Benjamin Moore's Gray Owl for the back, Valspar's Cincinatian Hotel Hannaford for the shelves.

Mia skillfully traced and cut the arches for the tops with a jigsaw. Her entire body vibrated the rest of the day, but these are the kinds of things we do for each other. And she was fine by bedtime. Yes, that's one of my chickens in the pot behind her, laying her daily egg.

Jenny put together an excellent {tutorial} on how she added the arches to her Ikea Billy bookcases, which I followed ever so carefully. What a brilliant way to make regular bookcases so custom. Mia came over on another day to help me install the arches, because she's awesome like that. The wood for the arches was $20.

I decided that because the bookcases were for my formal living room, I would dress them up just a touch with some very basic trim. It was also a good way to hide the seams where the arches joined up with each other. I found just what I needed at Lowes for $30, and called in the big guns for some assistance.

Caulking is your friend when you're working with wood. It will make the BIGGEST difference in your finished work.

Be sure to cut your tip really small so you have maximum control when using it, and have a wet cloth handy. There were lots of spaces like this in my bookcases because they were so old.

After caulking, you will never suspect the imperfections once it's painted.

After painting all the trim came the fun part. Accessorizing! 99% of the items came from thrifting/flea markets/my backyard. Even the $10 butterfly print, remember the one I hauled around NYC for 10 hours? You better believe that thing was going to be front and center!

I found the sofa on CL for $40 a couple years ago. I'm so sad I didn't take a before shot of it. I found 10 yards of striped linen at Goodwill for a total of $3.49 for the whole piece. Can you believe that?! One of my best girls, G, came over and helped me reupholster it. She's a keeper for sure. I finished it off with some aged nail heads. Lots of them. I painted the wood a cream color, then rubbed a light gray all over it. I adore the detail on the arms and sanded a little bit of the finish off to highlight it.

Me and my mom made the three big pillows out of a couple curtain panels I found at Goodwill. I love their feminine, pleated edge.

And here is the highly anticipated final picture! I'm so glad we finished it before the holidays. Total for the bookcases was $255. If you add the couch in, the total goes up to $340. And just for fun, let's throw the {coffee table} in there too, for a grand total of $355. If you must know, the pair of chairs were a lucky CL find at $60 apiece.

Now, on to the curtains, which is the last task to check off for the completion of this room. I'm going to give myself an award when they are done. Guess what? I have had my own place for the last 20 years, and this is the first time I have done one thing to any formal living room. I feel like such a big girl now!

We used to have to explain a lot when visitors came in the front door. Like why there was the back of a huge, jacked-up piece of furniture behind the couch. It's going to be so nice to welcome friends in, and not have them look at us like we're from outer space.

Don't forget to sign up for our {November Giveaway}. It's a fun one!

a holiday giveaway

2011-11-08T07:04:00.000-08:00

Here's a little something that might get you into the spirit of ~~giving~~ or shall I say getting. This month, one lucky reader will win a hand painted, address sign to adorn the front of their home. Jilly and I think it's the perfect thing to distinguish your little piece of the world. Especially if you live in a not-so-custom neighborhood, or you're looking for just the right thing to dress your veranda.

The two of us have been creating these original pieces of art for people all around the country for the past 7 years, and can't wait to make one for you! The winner will receive approx a 24" x 34" sign, including your last name, address, and your favorite quote. We'll work closely with you to ensure it's perfect for your home, and something you'll adore for years to come.

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Please make a separate comment for each entry to increase your chance to win. Each comment we receive is like a beautifully wrapped package that we can't wait to open. We just love em!

The winner will be chosen via random.org on Thanksgiving day!

On another note, It's beginning to feel like winter outside (which means it's below 80) and that reminds me why I love this time of year. Please enjoy this year's top 10 list.

10. Gourmet hot chocolate with extra cream (email me for the recipe).

9. Our electric bill drops down $300 a month, which means my husband is once again enjoyable.

8. Mommies Thanksgiving pies, they pretty much make it my favorite holiday.

7. The snowbirds are out in rare form.

6. My husband isn't quite as violent about my collection of trench coats, hats, boots, and scarves taking up space in the closet. I'd hate to be unprepared for Arizona's first blizzard.

5. Jilly and I get to dress our families in costumes, drop off holiday treats, and perform a choreographed song and dance for our neighbors. Wish you lived closer, don't ya.

4. The snow pine scented candle from The Gap. You've gotta have one!

3. Watching Elf 47 times between Thanksgiving and New Years.

2. Celine Dion's Christmas album. I'd play it in August if my family didn't give me dirty looks.
And let's not forget about Justin Beiber and Busta Rhymes rapping The Little Drummer boy. Too far.

1. The tacky strand of ceramic chilies that have made it to the Hatch family white elephant party for the last 20 years.

PS. Thanks Mandi, our cyber friend from {Vintage Revivals}. I know we're going to meet you some day so we can officially crown you our third bestie! Until then, keep blowing us away with your charm and creativity. YOU'RE AMAZING!

Nate Berkus and US!

2011-11-04T07:00:00.000-07:00

Remember this face?

Ya him.

Oh, mommy!

I'll give you a moment to catch your breath.

So in case you're not up to speed, last Friday I surprised 5 of my best girls when I persuaded this cutie pie to do a segment on Club Project.

You can't IMAGINE what kind of hoops I had to jump through to get them all in the same place at the same time, not to mention coordinating a 6 man camera crew and a field producer. But I pulled it off, fabricated lies, sleepless nights, and sweaty armpits.

I coordinated back and forth with Jenny, the shows producer, to work out all the kinks and let's just say, I have a new appreciation for what goes on behind the scenes. You can't fathom what kind of planning, coordinating, and scheduling must align to make something like this happen. The most miraculous thing of all is I kept it a secret for 6 weeks!

Jenny and I worked closely together on every detail including what pieces we would make over for the show. She thought it would be best if we took on two small projects that groups of three could work on, something that would take no more then a few hours to transform.

I found this old cart on casters at a flea market in Long Beach and thought it would be the perfect thing to
showcase. I know, it's a diamond in the rough, but I knew it had some potential and the 6 of us could bring out it's inner rock star. G said if she had found it on the side of the road, she wouldn't take a second look, but I fancied it right from the moment I laid eyes on it.

Lettie, Candice, and G sanded down and re-stained the top, painted the inside and outside light gray, and stripped the hardware and key holes.

G hand painted numbers on the drawers.

Nate and I both agree, a room needs at least one modern piece with clean lines. I knew this would sit in perfect juxtaposition next to my traditional, leather sofa, and french settee.

Remember this small scaled chest from Gracie's Thrift? I purchased it during a trip we took {junkin' in Phoenix}.

It was only thirty bucks and with a smidge of creativity, I knew it would make a great night stand for my teenager's bedroom.

Jilly, Cara, and I worked on this one, stopping along the way to explain exactly how to DIY and maybe shoot an occasional oops, "take 2". Jesse was an expert, asking us just the right questions so viewers at home would be able to re-create the process. We used the tutorial from Jami at {Freckled Laundry} to create this zinc inspired look right from restoration hardware.

I searched the internet and found this inspiring idea for drawer pulls. I knew if we put our heads together, we could come up with something just as innovative.

Cara took some jute rope and after a few minutes, she invented this. Now, that's what I call friends with benefits.

Here's the finished product. I love the little carpet tacks we hammered into the drawer fronts to give it the look of zinc veneer.

Little did I know, there was one more surprise in store for us. A big one. At the end of the day, I opened the front door and there on my porch were six huge, beautifully wrapped, gift baskets from Nate and the crew! In them we found gorgeous linens from his home shopping collection,

battery operated candles with decorative, holiday cuffs,

linen scarves,

a sequined throw pillow,

and a little note from the man himself.

That's G in hot pink scrubs. She was so excited, she gave the note a big, juicy, kiss. Jilly's expression comes in as a close second (don't judge her, she was a cheerleader, and a Bon Jovi lover). We've honestly been trying to get ourselves to the Miravel Spa for years and surprise, NOW WERE GOING!

It was such a special privilege to be able to give this opportunity to 5 of my friends. The six of us know as well as anyone that life isn't always exactly the way we we'd imagined it would be. It was so exhilarating to take a break from the cares of the world and experience pure joy for one day.

Our segment airs next Friday, November 11th and you bet we'll be together. Just the 6 of us (plus Nate), some yummy treats, and a TV tuned in to channel 10 at 11:00am.

PS. Nate, if you're reading, there's still a chance for us. In my book, there's only two things standing between us.

Call me.

somebody pinch me!

2011-11-01T07:00:00.000-07:00

Ever laid your eyes on this hottie?

We've been in love with him since his first appearance on the Oprah Show in 2002. The {first make-over} Nate ever did on Oprah was the transformation of a tiny 319 square foot studio into a real home. We must have watched that show 25 times in amazement! No wonder he became Oprah's "go-to guy".

To make a very long story short, Mia emailed what I'm sure was a compelling letter into the Nate Berkus Show about our very own {Club Project}. The next morning, she got a call from one of the producers of the show. She worked, undercover, with them for six long weeks.....sending emails, pictures and information, never divulging her secret operation to any of us.

We very innocently showed up last Friday at Mia's for our project day at the appointed hour. She answered the door with glossy lips and flip camera in hand, which was certainly out of the ordinary. Then she sat us all down on the couch, recited her love for each of us and our group. She said a little something about how she wanted to create a memory for us, then screamed at the top of her lungs, "The Nate Berkus Show is here!!" The few minutes that followed her announcement will be etched in my mind forever and ever. If there is ever a time when I can't recall that surprise, it will have to be because I'm not breathing anymore. Her family room was flooded with 7 men equipped with cameras, lights, microphones, and who knows what else!

As soon as we stopped squealing and caught our breath, the amazing Jesse validated what Mia had said, and introduced himself and his crew. They were the nicest and most professional group of guys, and played along with our game of 20 questions all day long. They lead crazy, busy lives as Field Producers and we were astounded by their rigorous schedules.

I felt so official wearing a microphone pack all day! You can tell Cara thinks I'm crazy.

We even enlisted the muscles of some of the crew a few times during the day.

Lettie, Candice, and G working on the drawers for the new zinc nightstand.

Of course Mia knew we would all be famished by noon, so she put together this amazing salad with greens, fresh roasted vegetables, sun-dried tomatoes (that she made herself), grilled chicken, feta cheese, and fresh basil she went and snipped from her herb garden out back. The Production Assistant ran and picked up gourmet pizza from The Deli for the ladies, and In-N-Out Burger for the guys since they don't have them in New York.

Mia is going to finish detailing the rest of our day on Friday's post, including when our show will air, and maybe a little bit about her personal interview with them the day before. There is still so much left to tell, you just won't believe it!

But let me take this opportunity to say how dear Mia is to me. Not only does she pull off amazing surprises like this, but she is the best friend a girl could have. She is grounded, witty, beautiful, talented, driven, and kind. We have never, ever run out of things to talk about in over 10 years, and I can promise you we never will! We have laughed and cried together too many times to count, and I always, always feel indebted to her. I have no idea how I'm going to repay her for this one! She is amazing, and I am grateful every day that she is a big part of my life. I love you Mia!!

I'd also like to say what I really wanted to say about Nate when the camera was in front of my face, but was too flustered to do it. I adore Nate Berkus. He is definitely at the top of my list of people I'd love to meet someday. He is so kind and compassionate. He relates to people of all walks of life and finds great joy in helping and serving others. His design ideas are superb, and his application is flawless. He is inspirational to me because of his passion in doing what he loves. I'm so thrilled that he has made a name for himself in the design world. He certainly deserves it.

Thank you so much to Mia and the Nate Berkus Show for making a dream of mine come true. Thanks to all the ladies of Club Project. We are so lucky to have each other! Stay tuned for Friday's exciting post from Mia.......

industrial railroad carts

2011-10-25T07:00:00.000-07:00

Industrial railroad carts have taken the design world by storm this past year. Many designers have incorporated them into beautiful rooms as coffee tables. A couple of my favorite images:

But my favorite of all is from {The Old Painted Cottage}, and sits in my blogging friend Jennifer's front room. That girl......she sure has a spectacular sense of style. I adore everything she does.

So while I do love the look, I haven't been so fond of the price of any that I have stumbled upon. Take this one for example, from Restoration Hardware. It's list price is $1095.

It's true I have seen them a few bucks cheaper on Ebay, but still in the $700 range.

Well friends, I have good news. Especially if you live in the greater Phoenix area. Take a look at what my backyard looked like last week.

A friend of mine lucked into 20 of these beauties! He has completely restored them and they look amazing. The iron parts were fully disassembled and cleaned. The wood is original and was finished with a coat of wax. The patina is beautiful and the iron wheels are exquisite. They are clean and sturdy, and ready to roll themselves right into the perfectly appointed spot in your home!

The old stencil "LINEBERRY N. WILKESBORO, N.C." is faint but apparent on most of them. They each weigh approximately 175 pounds. He is offering the carts for $375 apiece, and they can be picked up at my home in Gilbert. If you don't have the vehicle to transport one, he will deliver it for an additional $40. (metro Phoenix area only)

If you have been wondering what to get yourself for Christmas, I'm pretty sure I just cleared it up for you. If you have been as good as me this year, you deserve one. I'm sure Santa thinks so too.

To make arrangements for purchase, please contact us at meandjilly@gmail.com.

halloween pedi

2011-10-21T07:00:00.000-07:00

This is my foxy next door neighbor, Rachel. She is smart, witty, friendly, confident, and virtuous. I have the privilege of working closely with her at church and I'm completely in love. She also happens to be one of Brody's best friends and I'm so glad he spends his free time with people like her

One afternoon I asked Rachel if she wanted to come over for a Halloween pedi. She quickly cleared her schedule and came on over. We had lots of fun, especially when I pushed back her cuticles. She claims it was SOOOO painful. I say she was being dramatic!

Pretty cute, huh? I bet your neighbor girls would love a pedi too.

Grab some orange polish and paint the free edge. Toe separators are particularly handy when working on little toes.

Clean up the curved line with acetone and a sable brush.

Polish a thin black line just underneath the orange tip. Use acetone to straighten it if you don't have a steady hand. Skinny tip polishes can be found in the beauty section at your local Wal-Mart.

Use opaque, white polish and a stylus to make white dots on the orange polish. The stylus can be found at any craft store and makes perfect polka dots, every time.

Repeat on the four little toes.

To create the web, take the skinny, black brush and make a slanted line with two peaks in the outside corner of the big toe nail.

Repeat, making two more lines under the first.

Then connect the peaks with two straight lines to finish the web. Spooky, huh?

Finish with a clear top coat. If this doesn't put you in the mood for Halloween, you're on your own.